My Response to Sparkle's Break-Up

First off, I speak for everyone when I say FINALLY. On Saturday night I talked to TS for a little while about the break-up. Sometimes he's a really great guy, mostly around his family. But it seems that he spends too much time thinking he's invincible, thinking he's immortal. It makes him very unpleasant to talk to. I know I do this a lot, but I'd like to give a sampling of the things he and I discussed.

Girls he's kissed while going out with Sparkle. (Too many to count.)

The worst kisser ever. (Stella's friend reminds him of those fish that suck onto the side of their tanks.)

That he hasn't kissed a girl in 3 weeks. (And he was determined to change that within a matter of days.)

The Break-Up. (In Sparkle's grandparent's backyard.)

Why he and Sparkle can't be friends. (Because when he sees Sparkle and he's not with her, he is constantly reminded that he's not good enough for her. When they're together, he knows he is good enough for her. Doesn't that make so much sense?)

This-Guy-Is-So-Not-Worth-It

Sparkle, I didn't get much sleep last night, and I've been thinking about "this-guy-is-so-not-worth-it" since I woke up. My mind tends to fixate on one thought when I wake up, so I have to write this down or I'll be thinking about it all day.

I was thinking about what you said last week, about how he said "I might as well give up" when you were going to break up with him. I can't believe it's taken me this long to see it, but that's a threat. That's blackmail. That's abuse.

At first I followed what you were saying about how you just didn't care and how you would stay with him if for no other reason than to keep him from doing WORSE things. It's really easy to genuinely care about him. But I don't care how much he says he's going to change or how much you care about him. He is manipulating you into staying with him. Whether it's because he likes sneaking around behind your back or because he genuinely wants to change, either way, it's all about him.

Booty Call Boyfriend

So what do you do when your boyfriend tells you that he is considered booty call to a ton (meaning most all) girls …? That’s what I want to know because clearly it happened to me! And in case you don’t know what booty call is it means a girl can call you up whenever their horny and basically say lets make out (only in different words.)

With that love quotes post I really like Freckles' quote… its sooooo true.
Like honestly think about it… sick but true! Thanks for putting it into perspective!

I think I need some serious this-guy-is-so-not-worth-it talk…

Hello Sparkle Lily

Hello,
I am new.
My name is Sparkle Lily.
I have been cheated on over 10 times.
That is not a lie.
Guys are gay.
Goodbye.

That Jack @$$ Lied!

One time when I was in Cedar I was hanging out with my friend David who had told me he broke up with his girlfriend awhile ago. So being me and thinking that it wouldn't hurt anyone, I made out with him. I couple times actually. I went back home after that weekend that I stayed at my g-parents house. He had called me and we were talking and I mentioned something. He continued to lie to me about how he and his girlfriend did break up but got back together the day after I left. I thought, Oh that's pretty logical I suppose. Yeah no. She added me on Myspace and we got to talking. They never broke up. The jack @$$ lied to me.

Landon. Oh jeez. I did it to him again. Just not as bad I don't think this time. I thought I did want a relationship with him. I went to his cabin and everything. We had a "trial" deal thing. I got all stressed out about it and crap. I'm just too emotional for a relationship I guess. I have something wrong with me anyway. I can't just keep to one guy anymore. I like experimenting too much (don't take that dirty). Oh well. I don't think he's upset about anything. If he is, he's really good at hiding it.

She's Trying to Hook Up With My Boyfriend!

• CC,

Thank you for helping me out here. I will call you later for you to tell me how I'm supposed to tell him this. I feel way way bad. :( So I need to come up with something that doesn't make me sound like a horrible person.

I think that I will most definitely need to watch The Office. Maybe get season three. You will have to buy the ice cream and I'll by that season. We will eat and watch and discuss all our problems and what not. :)

• Others :/

New Problem:::: What do I do about stupid girls (one girl named Hailey Lund, yuck) that are trying to hook up with Dustin when she knows he is going out with me? I mean, I can't just tell her to stop. She will want to fight me, and I find girl fighting very immature and pointless. Hence, I must either, trust Dustin exceedingly much. Or figure a way to where she doesn't talk to him anymore. I can't trust her as his friend, because she is honestly a slut with STD s. What to do what to do....???