Booty Call Boyfriend

So what do you do when your boyfriend tells you that he is considered booty call to a ton (meaning most all) girls …? That’s what I want to know because clearly it happened to me! And in case you don’t know what booty call is it means a girl can call you up whenever their horny and basically say lets make out (only in different words.)

With that love quotes post I really like Freckles' quote… its sooooo true.
Like honestly think about it… sick but true! Thanks for putting it into perspective!

I think I need some serious this-guy-is-so-not-worth-it talk…

Can't We Just Say, "Hi, I Find You Attractive. Would You Like to Find a Secluded Corner With Me?"

Why is it such a big deal? Can't we just say, "Hi, I find you attractive. Would you like to find a secluded corner with me?" And when we do say that why can't it be okay? What's the deal with "friends with benefits"? CC thinks it's when you get free dental as well as a booty call. But is it morally fine to simply feel needed, liked, cute, sexy, sweet, exciting, hot, validated, and all other hormonally crazy feelings with out getting your heart trashed? Of course we all have different opinions on this subject, but my question is how do we figure out the line between "just for fun" and what is just plain slutty. I think about this moral dilemma way more than is healthy, but I still have no answer. Maybe I'm just trying to rationalize my decision to tell a boy that I would prefer not to have a boyfriend seeing as I know relationships and love don't last. But now that I've tasted boys I want them all the time... Dang it... Slutty, I am.

7 Quotes I Love (About Love): CC

1. “Love is a snowmobile racing across the tundra when suddenly it flips over, pinning you underneath. At night, the ice weasels come.” –Matt Groening

2. “We’re all a little weird and life’s a little weird, and when we find someone whose weirdness is compatible with outs, we join up with them and fall in mutual weirdness and call it love.” –Anonymous (but I got it from a little plaque at my brother’s psychologist’s office)

3. “Because waiting for you is like waiting for rain in this drought – useless and disappointing.” –A Cinderella Story

4. “Love is not love which alters when it alteration finds, Or bends with the remover to remove. O no! It is an ever-fixed mark That looks on tempests and is never shaken.” –Shakespeare’s Sonnet 116

5. “It’s just hormones.” –Freckles

6. “Love: a temporary insanity, curable by marriage.” –Ambrose Bierce

7. “Gravitation is not responsible for people falling in love.” –Albert Einstein

Hickey Story! Continued...

I'm really excited for Sparkle Lily to be here!

Post more and more posts ladies! I'm glad people are getting back into it instead of just me and CC. :D

Story: If you've read my hickey story, then you know about my sex talk. So Dustin's mom heard about it and had a talk with him. This is somewhat of how it went (from what Dustin told me their conversation went. I wasn't there.)

Dustin's ma: You guys are getting pretty serious
Dustin: uh. Sure..?
Dustin's ma: I'm going to have to buy you more condoms.
(She bought him a box of condoms last year when we first started going out and said, "I'm not giving you permission... but just in case.")
Dustin: Wow. Okay.
Dustin's ma: Have you guys had sex?
Dustin: Hell no, mom. Not everyone is like you and has sex and gets pregnant young and traps the guy into marrying you, gets divorced, and re-married, to the same guy, for doing the same thing all over again. We aren't stupid.
Dustin's ma: Dustin don't be such an a**.

.... and the conversation continues but it becomes irrelevant.

Hello Sparkle Lily

Hello,
I am new.
My name is Sparkle Lily.
I have been cheated on over 10 times.
That is not a lie.
Guys are gay.
Goodbye.