Yes Girls ~ The Challenge

Rules: Say YES to everything
with the following exceptions-

1. If it goes against your morals/beliefs in any way (i.e. you find it offensive or questionable, if it makes you feel guilty or uncomfortable, even if it's just a one time thing).

2. If it conflicts with something better/necessary/urgent (i.e. you can't be in two places at once; prioritize).

3. If it sounds stupid, it is stupid. Don't do anything you would regret the next day/month/year (HINT: If you wouldn't feel comfortable telling your girlfriends about it, it's probably a bad idea).

Three simple rules to keep you in check as you embark on the Adventure of a Lifetime.

Every time you say yes, even if you have your doubts, something will happen to make it worth your while. Try it out.

(Authors note: This is not some cheesy forward I got off an email; this is an experiment I tried this summer. It was the best summer of my life.)

oh the DRAMA!

Hello everyone! this is my first post since the boy blog has been up and running again. i am so freaking excited and i have much to say.... last summer was boring. altho a certain person we will call J.H. told me he liked me. that all great and everything except for the fact i had no feelings for him whatsoever. he moved on and we stayed best friends until football season when he started dating this cheerleader. it really pissed me off. i started to have feeling for him, or so i thought, so i told him i liked him and he basically dumped the other chick and told me he never stopped liking me. SCORE!!! anyways it was fun and all until a week later when he kissed me and sad to say i felt nothing I REPEAT NOTHING! i feel awful saying this but you know how you feel that great feeling in the pit of your stomach... no that definitely wasn't there. very sad. i tried to ignore it for a while but you can only ignore something like that for so long. when your thinking about how much better this other guy --T.S. -- is at kissing while your kissing your boyfriends and how you would really like to kiss T.S. right now, you know you should probably break up with him... so i did... very sad the next night i hung out with T.S. and he told me he liked me ugh! --- here is the side story this is the same T.S. who has cheated on me dozens of times. --that night we laid on his brothers bed listening to Damien Rice with the lights off... it was so hard not to kiss him! i knew i shouldn't because one i just broke up with J.S. and we were still going threw that "maybe we could work it out" stage although i knew there was no hope. and two i didn't want to give him what he wanted because i knew what was on his mind.

So now i am stuck in this situation. me and J.S. are pretty good although he is still a little bitter because all i told him when i broke up with him was that "i wasn't feeling it anymore" which was true i just didn't tell him i never did. and me and T.S. went to a movie last night and cuddled. what do i do?!?! i cant go back to the loser who has cheated on me a billion times! but what you need to understand is that i have never been so attracted to someone. i don't know if this is normal but i seriously get that feeling in my stomach when i just stand by him... imagion kissing him! it so annoying! well ill let you know what happens next in my pathetic life haha... later

sparklelily

oh and just as an fyi this is the same T.S. who gave me the giant down comforter which i still have haha.... if you forgot look under 2009-march-The breakup ... finally... it will tell the whole story :)

New Book Announcement

New Book: The Treasure Map of Boys by E. Lockhart is now out. For those of you newcomers to The Boy Blog, E. Lockhart's book "The Boy Book" was the primary inspiration for the beginning of this blog. I highly suggest it.

As for my fellow writers... where are you girls?

A RE-DECLARATION of lip virginity... why does this always happen to me?

Since my last post, I have cause to re-declare my lip virginity. How many times can you do that, you ask? Let me tell you. As many as it takes. As many as it takes until you've directed yourself past the candy aisle of Wal-Mart into the safer haven of the vegetable section where temptation is far and few. I'm hoping my slip-ups are reaching an end, because last night I realized that I'm wading into deep of end of deception where One Tree Hill has got me thinking that true love could be around any corner. Lip-locks have got to start meaning something or I'm wasting my time.

It may have just started raining. *Sigh.* Time to go dance and wait for my knight in shining armor to take me into his arms and - damn. Stupid TV shows, getting my hopes up.

Born Again Virgins

One Tree Hill. The source of a large amount of inspiration for my life. A TV show to be revered above (nearly) all others. The keystone to my soul.

The most recent gem of inspiration I've been bestowed with is the notion of being a Born Again Virgin. Except in my highly sheltered life, I'd like to refer to myself as a Born Again Lip Virgin. After seeing a certain episode of One Tree Hill involving a club full of Born Again Virgins, I was running when I made the startling discovery that I'm not particularly proud of any of my lip-locks. I haven't done a lot of lip-locking in recent months, and I don't see any reason I can't just... start over.

It can equated to starting a race and tripping after just a few meters and then beginning again at the starting line. Or a do-over in "not it" before playing hide and seek. Or a new haircut after breaking up with your boyfriend to prove that you simply don't care what he thinks anymore even though you really do even after trying smooch therapy to help yourself move on and - sorry. Red Tulip came up with that part. If you see her with a new haircut, make sure to be understanding.

Back to the idea of lip virginity renewal... this is me kissing a few guys, feeling cheated out of a good experience, and then stopping the game and clicking "Start Game Over." I reserve the right to tell anyone who asks that I have never been kissed, although I might have to be careful about who is around when I brag about my lip virginity because publishing your scamming experiences on the web means that there are a lot of people who could call me on my bluff... Regardless! I shouldn't have to regret foolish decisions I made in my youth. Speaking of which! It's good to be back on the blog. The new URL name is taken from a song from Moulin Rouge and seemed to be a good title for starting over and renewing our Boy Blog vows. Welcome back.